Even many women feel terrible when they leave men they love, and that tears their heart out of them, they are doing it for many reasons.
There’s one reason, in particular, that is emphasized by most of the women, which some of the men don’t understand – it is the absence of the men from the women’s “life”. Usually, he’s working, gaming, golfing, watching TV, fishing and numerous other things where his wife is not included. It doesn’t mean that those men are not good, as they are actually good fathers, support their family, they’re likable, but they are not really present.
Women usually explain to their psychotherapist that they are scared of this situation and that sometimes it makes them cry.
In many cases that behavior of the men couldn’t be judged as right or wrong, but one thing is for sure that their wives are not their property. They deserve more attention and to feel the real presence of their men. The wife wants to talk to her husband about what matters to her and to feel that he is listening to her.
The women also want to be respected as a person, do not want absent-minded groping or quick sex.
Along with listening to wife, the husband should deeply see her, meeting her gaze and keeping it for longer than usual, longer than what’s comfortable. The husband should show his interest and curiosity about his wife.
When the man is touching his wife that should be with a full attention and with following what happens at the moment they make a contact in his body. This is sometimes described as mindfulness. It is recommended to tell the women everything is noticed, moment after moment.
As many men are really busy and don’t have time for all this, the suggestion is to find at least five minutes a day. It shouldn’t be extravagant dinners or date nights (although these are fine too).
It is really expected that following all above-mentioned suggestions will be of great help, and every man once start, once get a taste, he will never want to stop.